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Are you feeling:
- Unhappy and stressed
- Stuck and helpless
- Frustrated and ready to quit
- Unsure of yourself
- Anxious and overwhelmed
- Overwhelmed, have communication barriers
- Doubtful, mistrusted and uncertain
- Low self-worth and confidence
ARE THESE FEELINGS BECAUSE OF A CURRENT RELATIONSHIP OR A PAST TOXIC RELATIONSHIP THAT HAS LEFT YOU FEELING DRAINED AND DEFEATED?
ARE YOU NOW CONTEMPLATING SEPARATION OR DIVORCE?
I am Marilyn Mars, your highly-skilled Relationship Coach, here to help you with your relationship challenges!
I BELIEVE YOU HAVE TO ABILITY TO EXPERIENCE A GENUINE CONNECTION, HAVE AUTHENTIC LOVE AND FIND OR EXPERIENCE A DEEP AND FULFILLING LOVE RELATIONSHIP WHEN YOU LEARN TO CREATE YOUR LOVE.
I help my clients understand the importance of re-connecting with their true self, find balance in their life, practice self-care, learn how to eliminate limiting beliefs and fixed mindsets, love and respect themselves, bring the spark back in the relationships they value, and understand the importance of making wise and informed choices in life.
CREATE YOUR LOVE – This might sound like an understatement, a cliché or something that may seem very impossible to do, as it is a widely held notion that “we just fall in love.” Here are a few other beliefs system (BS) attached to the concept of love:
- Love is blind
- You can’t tell your heart who to love
- The heart wants what it wants
- My heart choose you
And the list goes on and on and may even paradoxically become among the excuses why our love relationship have failed.
I believe that there is nothing more important in life like cultivating happy and healthy relationship with ourselves and the people we love.
We make plans for almost everything else in life, the clothes we want to wear, the car we want to drive, the house we want to live in, the hairstyle we want to wear, however for the most significant relationship in our life we make no plans, but leave it up to chance, and according to our (BS) about love.
There had to be an obvious reason why the term “significant other” was used to describe our partner we are having our romantic relationship with. The word significant, according to the oxford dictionary means: sufficiently great or important to be worthy of attention; noteworthy; having a particular meaning; indicative of something.
So I can say, the interpretation is that this significant other that we are choosing to get involved with or even to get married to – this significant one was supposed to be one that we have given much attention or thought to when we were making our selection, this one also was supposed to be worthy of our attention. This worthy of our attention must correlate with our values, beliefs, aspirations, projections, purposes and goals that we have for our life. For it is said, “two cannot walk together unless they both agree on the direction or path they are taking.” Should they have different paths in mind then they are taking two different directions, separate of each other, unless there is a compromise.
Not only are the parties in the relationship emotionally, psychologically and physiologically affected but most and quite often other family members are and especially the children out of this relationship are greatly traumatized and devastated to the point that they may go on to live very unstable lives in their adulthood, according to the magnitude of the trauma they suffered during childhood as a result of their parent’s divorce or separation.
For this reason and many more that I will share with you here, I cannot stop emphasizing over and over that we should all make a conscious effort to CREATE YOUR LOVE, and create it intentionally.
“Bring your awareness to the fact that we are the ones that are
creating toxic relationships to persons, things, or places everyday;
and we are the ones who have the power individually
to change the trajectory of our lives”
Who is a good candidate for Relationship Coaching?
We all have the desire to live in healthy, happy, connected and fulfilling relationships.
Love is one of the most important basis on which humans build their relations; being an affectionate attraction to the other who is existing as an independent individual, and being a need to connect to the other; this human experience is the most important element in our world.
Moreover, the elements that are responsible for stimulating the feelings of love in people are also quite a few, and different, for some might be stimulated by the beauty of the other, others might be stimulated by his or her morals, and so on. Love, whatever its stimulants were, at all time drives the lover to attach himself or herself to the beloved, whosoever he or she is.
Due to this we are at all times creating our love – so let us do so intentionally – aiming to a happy and fulfilling life.
Schedule Your Free 30 minutes Discovery Call
When your schedule your call I will get back to you at the most convenient time. We’ll see if I can help; and if we can work together towards accomplishing your relationship goals.
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Marilyn, your Relationship Life Coach
I was greatly impressed at the knowledge of the coach and the great strategies I received that help me to build trust in my partner.
We are both now off to new start in building a better relationship with a better foundation.
At first I was very skeptical as I did not feel comfortable talking about intimate things with a total stranger. However, since we got to talking on my discovery call Marilyn made me feel so relaxed. Now my relationship is better.
I am satisfied with the information that I received and the discussion we had.
What was even more beneficial were the exercises that I was given to do by Marilyn. The exercises helped me to analytically understand when I was at the present movement. Due to this I was able to make the necessary changes I needed in my relationship - now things are beginning to improve.
I feel happy and hopeful and more comfortable.
Since our very first discussion I was very impressive at the way that Marilyn presented herself and the knowledge that she had. Her approach was so unique because she incorporated a spiritual essence that first made me see that I had a inner connection, a purpose and was desiring of more than I was settling for. It help me to see clearly the toxic relationship that I was recreating not only for myself but also my partner because of my negative mindset